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Email bdsm checklist
Email bdsm checklist











From domestic chores or sexual ones to tasks designed to enhance the submissive service or their well-being, either physical or mental. These tasks can range over a wide area of activities. Within a D/s relationship it is not entirely unheard of for the Dominant to set various task and chores for the submissive. For many submissive’s keeping a checklist or completing daily tasks is a great way to make sure you are staying on track and meeting your Dominant’s standards, giving you a boost of confidence and allowing you to hone your submissive skills. Tasks can be daily check-ins at specific times by text, email, phone, etc, maintaining respect when addressing the Dominant, wearing your collar at specific times or 24/7, completing a submissive worksheet or written assignments. The there is personal care like exercise, going on a good diet, some grooming even a break or a vacation.To keep the submissive busy and maintaining dynamic and structure by giving chores and errands to run letting the submissive do a scavenger hunt.To gain information and insight about a submissive by journaling be it porn or fiction or an assignment where the submissive is told to collect fictional D/s stories that arouse them and tell the Dominant what they like about each one, there are questionnaires such as a BDSM checklist that can be done, a good essays such as “300 words on what the word “submissive” means to you”.For conditioning and training like practicing service tasks, doing something that needs daily focus like posture, positions, presentation, mindfulness, etc then also there are learning and remembering preferences.For pleasure for benefit there are service assignments like doing chores or running errands maybe even purchasing a type of clothing that the Dominant likes even doing something that makes the submissive look good, or a goal.For a submissive’s growth and education by getting tasks like a reading list, cultural exposure, such as going to a museum, doing something creative, writing a story or drawing a picture even by taking a class, working within the BDSM community to study or learning a new skill, all of these tasks are educational and teach a submissive new things.So it might be fun for a Dominant to watch yu doing something you hate, but is that task going to help you improve in a specific way ? Remember that a Task or assignment should have a purpose. Monthly, weekly or daily tasks and chores for submissives, what are they for and why do Dominants implement them ?













Email bdsm checklist